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Choosing Where to Die—A Long-Term Care Ombudsman Story
A long-term care ombudsman responds to a hotline call and uncovers severe neglect, then helps a dying nursing home resident reclaim dignity and choice.
Carol Lindsay
Jun 24 min read


Mr. Feltman: Finding Joy in a Nursing Home Room AN OMBUDSMAN STORY
A long-term care ombudsman meets a resident who can no longer speak—but still creates joy through handmade felt pins and quiet resilience.
Carol Lindsay
May 262 min read


Same Meal, Different History: A Long-Term Care Ombudsman Story
At lunch in a beautiful assisted living facility, four women were delighted. Five men were not. The difference wasn’t the food—it was history.
Carol Lindsay
Mar 53 min read


Choice Doesn’t End at Hospice
An eight-year-old was placed in front of a dying woman and told to read. No one asked if Margaret had the energy to comfort a frightened child. In hospice, even kindness has limits—and choice still matters.
Carol Lindsay
Mar 32 min read


When They Get It RightA Long-Term Care Ombudsman Story
They stand quietly with their feelings.
And they honor the person as they leave the building for the last time.
Carol Lindsay
Feb 262 min read


The Hot Room: A Long-Term Care Ombudsman Story
A nursing home resident reported extreme heat in her room. The problem wasn’t ignored—it just never reached the right person.
Carol Lindsay
Feb 152 min read


The Day I Became a “Redneck Advocate”
A rehab resident misunderstands “resident advocate” as “redneck advocate,” sparking a moment that reveals what advocacy really requires.
Carol Lindsay
Feb 121 min read


Where the Lost Laundry Goes: A LTC Ombudsman Story
She said it like she needed to justify the mistake. Like being blind somehow made her responsible for wearing someone else’s clothes.”\
Carol Lindsay
Feb 92 min read


The Missing Shower Bar: A Long-Term Care Ombudsman Story
Residents reported a missing shower grab bar and followed the process. A long-term care ombudsman shows why their voices still needed amplification.
Carol Lindsay
Feb 82 min read
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