Ombudsman Reflections

Today’s issue might sound trivial to someone not living in an assisted living facility. Residents were frustrated that when CNAs wear their name badges on lanyards, the badge flips over. When it flips, residents can’t see the CNA’s name. That means they either have to wait for the badge to turn back around—or ask. Several staff members were in attendance. The administrator suggested something simple: ask the CNA their name. The residents were firm. “No. We don’t want to. We s

“Can we even use weed here?” Paul asked.

In most nursing homes, death is not acknowledged. There is no announcement, no shared moment, no ritual of remembrance. One day a chair is occupied; the next day it is empty. Residents notice. They count how many friends have sat there before. They wait through breakfast, then lunch, then ask the front desk. Silence does not spare them grief—it leaves them to carry it alone, doing the math in their own heads and wondering, quietly, if anyone will notice when they are gone.

A cruise ship with 5,500 passengers returned every item of laundry without loss. In nursing homes, lost clothing is one of the most common complaints. A long-term care ombudsman reflects on what missing laundry reveals about accountability, dignity, and respect in institutional care.